I had the thought of doing this post, earlier today, but I forgot for a bit. So, doing it now.
I was in the National Guard for 8 years and active duty for 2 years. I definitely have reservations about how our military is being used, but I want to focus on one aspect of the military that most don't spend enough time learning from... Basic Training.
The purpose of basic training is to break you down and build you up with individual confidence. You enter basic scared and alone. I remember my moments doing it. I was gathered with a bunch of others that are also scared and alone. They joined out of different reasons. Some joined for scholarship money. Some joined for family tradition. Some.. actually.. joined after a life of prison to find a new future for themselves. However, none were prepared for what lie ahead.
The first two weeks of Basic are called hell weeks. For weeks you are woke at ungodly hours of the morning by banging trash cans or yelling or more. The Drill Sargent gets pleasure in catching you off guard and emphsizing your weakness. They are trained to do it. You will be forced to spend hours in prone position doing pushups or lifting cans filled with concrete or doing road marches or more. I remember multiple times taking a shower and feeling half of my muscles spasming in pain and exhaustion, just do have to do more, shortly after. I honestly wondered if I would die in the process, but I figured that no one would allow them to kill us.
Then, you stop failing as much. You start doing well at different things. You do more than you expected. You last longer in PT than you thought you could. Slowly, you become confident that you CAN not only survive but do well at being a soldier, and that gives you confidence to do more.
This is another example of the benefit of evil. No one is trained in basic by being praised and treated well. They treat you HORRIBLY. WHY? It is so that when you are out there in battle with no one to ask for help, YOU can solve your own problems and save others.
People are not trained in wisdom. They are not made fit by being given a light load. We have in various ways for CENTURIES or even longer been training people to succeed by first treating them badly to teach them to overcome. WHY should we expect LIFE to be any different?
You face struggles to learn to overcome and gain confidence. If you have not learned the lesson, it will feel worse for you, longer. Then, you can graduate from your struggle and actually be useful for success in your own life and the life of others.
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